As opposed to An Ideal Husband by Oscar Wilde.
As I have been learning about BGR (boy-girl relationship), I just wanted to share with you what I think I would want in my ideal husband. It may that I will never marry or my future husband is nothing like what I have in my list. This list of mine does not have any particular order. You may find some of the things on it weird. But I assure I have given some thought on it. Except for the 'must' qualities, I am quite flexible. I think.
Here goes nothing:
As I have been learning about BGR (boy-girl relationship), I just wanted to share with you what I think I would want in my ideal husband. It may that I will never marry or my future husband is nothing like what I have in my list. This list of mine does not have any particular order. You may find some of the things on it weird. But I assure I have given some thought on it. Except for the 'must' qualities, I am quite flexible. I think.
Here goes nothing:
- Must be a male from birth
- Must be a real true Christian - not just one who talks but don't act
- Cute - in my eyes if not yours
- Knows at least all of the languages I know namely English, Hokkien, Malay, Mandarin, Cantonese - i don't mind if he knows more than me, its just that at times when i want to describe something in that particular language/dialect it takes out the euphoria if that person don't know it
- Speak good (if not perfect) English - since my main language is English, i'm not sure whether should i make it a must. what do you think?
- Rich - or at least well of to afford a maid: i am that lazy!
- Must be a non-smoking male - i seriously dislike smokers especially when they are smoking in front of me
- I don't mind if he drinks occasionally but I do not want an alcoholic
- Similar hobbies - then he won't buat bising when i buy booksss =)
- Smart - I wouldn't mind if he's smarter than me but I wouldn't somebody too stupid
- Being an orphan is a bonus - I don't have to deal with in-laws
- Have some class - I wouldn't want a husband who doesn't know how to use a fork and knife simultaneously (maybe i'm too picky?)
- Likes to help around the house - yeah right!
- Jack of all trades - save money :)
- I think age doesn't really matter to me.
- He should be able to get along with my family and friends.
- Funny
- It would be good if he is a Malaysian Chinese - same everything is easier: no culture clash
- Similar values - it will be easier for our marriage life eg raising our kids
- Same height or taller than me
- Not too thin - i would need somebody who can support me (i am fat)
- Must not be too China man thinking - somebody a bit less extreme than my dad will be good
It wasn't that easy coming up with all these 'qualities'. But if I found somebody who has all this qualities, he would be perfect husband material :o) I will keep on praying!
Today is studying day. So bye bye.
[a picture of wentworth miller used to be here, i've taken it down since its odd]
dictionary
buat bising - make noise
Today is studying day. So bye bye.
[a picture of wentworth miller used to be here, i've taken it down since its odd]
dictionary
buat bising - make noise
6 comments:
so weird that after that list you have a pix of an "orang puteh" :-)
if "he" had lots of money, he woild not need to be a jack of all trades and help around the house ... because you would have 2 maids to do the housework and the money to hire professional help :-)
yeah good point. i didn't realise it before :D
well..this is in case he doesn't have that much money. it is under optional 'qualities' =)
Bwahahahhaha!!! I love the similar hobbies part!!! :P:P
Then again... i don't think i wanna to be attached so fast... lol.. and that guy is cute..who is he? Lol
=)) well i'm not looking to be attached so fast either but because i want kids, i want to hopefully get married by 25/26.
the hot guy is wentworth miller from prison break!! how can u not know him??
Muahaha.. Em's too picky but hopefully u get ur ideal husband la..
thank you =)
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